Since I’m looking for something to put on the top right of the header on this blog, I’ve read a lot of great quotes about siblings and family lately.Â I wanted to share some of them here.Â I found most of them at Quote Garden.
Quotations are great for condensing wisdom, humor and/or insight into a few words.Â Forgive this long list, but read them all!Â They’re so good…and so true:
Our brothers and sisters are there with us from the dawn of our personal stories to the inevitable dusk.Â ~Susan Scarf Merrell
Our siblings push buttons that cast us in roles we felt sure we had let go of long ago – the baby, the peacekeeper, the caretaker, the avoider…. It doesn’t seem to matter how much time has elapsed or how far we’ve traveled.Â ~Jane Mersky LederÂ
To the outside world we all grow old.Â But not to brothers and sisters.Â We know each other as we always were.Â We know each other’s hearts.Â We share private family jokes.Â We remember family feuds and secrets, family griefs and joys.Â We live outside the touch of time.Â ~Clara Ortega
If you don’t understand how a woman could both love her sister dearly and want to wring her neck at the same time, then you were probably an only child.Â ~Linda Sunshine
Sisters are different flowers from the same garden.Â ~Author Unknown
The family.Â We were a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another’s desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together.Â ~Erma Bombeck
Family quarrels have a total bitterness unmatched by others.Â Yet it sometimes happens that they also have a kind of tang, a pleasantness beneath the unpleasantness, based on the tacit understanding that this is not for keeps; that any limb you climb out on will still be there later for you to climb back.Â ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic’s Notebook, 1960
Our most basic instinct is not for survival but for family.Â Most of us would give our own life for the survival of a family member, yet we lead our daily life too often as if we take our family for granted.Â ~Paul Pearshall
If the family were a fruit, it would be an orange, a circle of sections, held together but separable – each segment distinct.Â ~Letty Cottin Pogrebin
Family faces are magic mirrors.Â Looking at people who belong to us, we see the past, present, and future.Â ~Gail Lumet Buckley
The lack of emotional security of our American young people is due, I believe, to their isolation from the larger family unit.Â No two people – no mere father and mother – as I have often said, are enough to provide emotional security for a child.Â He needs to feel himself one in a world of kinfolk, persons of variety in age and temperament, and yet allied to himself by an indissoluble bond which he cannot break if he could, for nature has welded him into it before he was born.Â ~Pearl S.
I’m a rose in the family garden.Â A few thorns here and there, but singular, sweet and not too hard on the eyes.Â Â ~The Median Sib