I was looking through the photos on my Photobucket album when I came across this photo:

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The photo was taken on Saturday morning, November 29, 1986, at RT’s and my home in Tennessee.  It is a photo of my father and mother with five of their granddaughters.  When the photo was taken, we had no idea that in less than a week my father would die suddenly and we would all be gathered again  - this time in Georgia - for his funeral.  This is the last photo we have of my father.  When I see a meaningful photo such as this, I immediately start thinking not only of the events surrounding that photo, but also of all that has happened since the photo was taken.

The oldest granddaughter in the photo is my daughter.  She’s now married and has two little girls of her own.  The youngest granddaughter in the photo - the one my mother is holding (the daughter of my younger non-blogging brother, David) - just got married this past year.   She and her husband live on a farm in Alabama.  The curly-haired blonde immediately in front of my daughter is now a teacher/missionary in Kenya (and yes, with the situation in Kenya, we are all worried about her).  She’s the daughter of my non-blogging sister, Debi.  The one sitting in my father’s lap (The daughter of my sister, Beth) with her hands clasped in front of her face is now living on her own in California.  And the granddaughter standing beside the chair holding her doll is the daughter of my brother Terrell.  She is now living in New York City - working as a nanny and hoping to work in musical theater.

Over twenty-one years have passed.  Four new grandchildren have been born since my father’s death, along with lots of great-grandchildren.  My father had such a robust attitude towards life, and he loved his children and grandchildren.  I would give anything to share with him the joy I feel for my own grandgirls.  No major point here - just the observation that life goes very quickly.   

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7 Responses to “As Time Goes By - too quickly”

  1. Mushy Says:

    “Twenty years now, where they’ve gone?”

    Thanks for sharing your memory and the photo.

  2. Greatfullivin Says:

    What a wonderful memory. I lost my Dad in 2001. Time does move right along doesn’t it. I was moved reading your soldier Andy’s posthumus post. It really makes me think,none of us are promised tomorrow, so what have I done today. hmmmmmm…..

  3. ruth Says:

    MY Carol… Thanks! i was not prepared to see that photo tonight…tears and all kinds of emotion! I sure wish all the kids…Joey, Josh, the Lewis boys were also in that pic. We had 7 boys and 7 girl grands then, non of them married.
    Glad you are feeling better.

  4. carol Says:

    Thanks, Mushy, Greatfullivin and Ruth, for stopping by. Photographs can be powerful - especially when they’re so closely linked to important and life-changing events.

  5. Jane Says:

    Time does pass quickly. Your dad would be SO proud of the women these little girls became and rightly so.
    Thanks for sharing your thoughts and the picture of my favorite uncle!

  6. Joan Says:

    You did, indeed, make a major point. Time is life — and it is passing too fast. Those photos we made that weekend always bring happy memories as well as tears to me. Too bad the media has so overused the term “bittersweet” — it is just right for this situation, but seems to have no meaning because of its recent frequent use.

  7. Jessica Says:

    I love this picture–it’s on the piano at my parent’s house, and I have it on my computer (out here on the farm P )

    I wish I could remember him…

    TMS: I’m so sorry you don’t remember him, Jess. And I guess you DO live on a farm, don’t you - well, it’s out in the country anyway. I guess. Straighten me out if I’m wrong. -)

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