I listened to a conversation today.  It was between two fellow teachers - both of whom belong to a Church of Christ.  Wonderful, active, educated and vibrant women who have been working fulltime for many years - earning a paycheck that goes directly to their families:

First teacher:  “Ken gave me $150 to spend on the twins’ Christmas gifts.”

Second teacher nodded - no incredulity or shock - just a “that’s-how-it-is” nod. 

The conversation continued as they chatted about Christmas shopping.  I was still in shock.  Ken is her husband.  The twins are their children.  She works full time and earns a paycheck, and her husband “gave” her the money to buy their children Christmas gifts.  Amazing.