The Median Sib

I’ve been amused the past couple days to see a comment on one of my Mary Winkler posts from someone who is either an adolescent posing as a married male, or a married male stuck at an adolescent mental age.  Later I looked at my site meter and followed the link to the referring website and found the funniest - and most pitiful - website.  I won’t give the URL here because I don’t want to give them any traffic.  The website is a “hate” website, and the object of their hate is American women. 

This is their view of the American woman.  They discuss my website as an example of evil feminism. . .  Which is funny to anyone who knows me.  They dislike me because I wrote that there was a possibility that Matthew Winkler might have had an overbearing “man is the boss and the woman had better submit” attitude - given his COC affiliation and knowing that church’s beliefs.  Just speculation, but apparently what a typical feminist nazi would write.  So they’ve posted my blog address for their readers to see how evil I am…and I’ve had a few hits from there today. 

The posts and comments I read are like tantrums.  Supposedly grown married men blaming American women for all their troubles - and complaining about how badly married men are always treated.  Reading a few posts, you’d think that American women were the cause of all the ills in the world.  The men who post belly-ache endlessly about what terrible and useless wives American women are.  It’s the funniest and most pathetic and transparent example of projection I’ve seen in a long time.  Maybe not projection - but a lack of taking responsibility for their own actions and lives.  It’s sad to see people use a negative experience with one person (usually their ex-wives) to label and denigrate an entire group of women.  Can you imagine being married to one of them? 

Apparently they go to other countries to find properly submissive wives.  These are men who have such overwhelming neuroses and insecurities that they’re incapable of maintaining healthy relationships with women, and their only perceived option (since they can’t accept responsibility or any blame for their failures themselves since that might mean they’re not masculine enough) is to blame American women. Yes, that’s it.  They were perfect in their marriages.  It was just those damn overbearing, greedy, immoral, feminist American women who were impossible to please.

And while it is sad, it is also funny to read the adolescent nature of their site.  My sister and I were talking about it earlier, and I’ve been chuckling about it all day.